Practicing Aloofness

It seems crazy that when you're aloof, XYs find you more intriguing. You have to be skinny. Or have great hair or one remarkable body part. You can't be too nice, smart, attentive, or accomplished. A little more of this but not too much of that. Did anyone tell this to Angelina Jolie? If so, she didn't listen. Ange seems to have everything (Brad, babies, box office allure, bisexuality, used to cut herself but recovered, loves knives, married Billy Bob, carried blood around her neck, is serious about charity) but has lived in all parts of the spectrum. As sick to death as I am of her in the news, I admire her. Just my thought for the day...